Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Medical Check-Up dan Perempuan Suka Shopping Tidak Guna Duit Orang Lain


Medical Check-Up

"Tanggalkan baju, jangan guna apa-apa kecuali pakaian putih ini.."

Wow.. sungguh bebas tapi amat janggal. Ba ha ha.. Pengalaman medical check up semalam la ni..

Anyway, I’m leaving this Sunday starting afresh di kota metropolitan penoh pancaraba for a duration of 1 year.. So heads up mungkin aku takkan sempat nak update semasa di sana. Minggu suai kenal will last for a week, lepas tu aku akan menyewa [yerp, tempat tinggal tidak disediakan] bersama rakan-rakan. God knows bilalah aku akan ada internet waktu tu.. maybe aku akan amik boyband.. no, broadbandung. Ngeh ngeh.



Question, tolong beri pendapat jujur anda..

Katakan seorang perempuan pergi bershopping kan.. and barang yang dishopping, biasanya designers brand la like Gucci, LV or kira paling murah antara yang termahal, Charles and Keith.. Maka, adakah dia, seorang yang high maintenance? Walaupun dia gunakan duit dia sendiri, tak pernah sekali pun mintak dari boyfriend dia whatsoever? And oh, dia tak kedekut.. kira down to earth type of a person. Tapi persepsi apabila melihat seorang perempuan yang ‘ada class’ adalah dia seorang yang high maintenance lelaki takut nak dekat.. What say you?


[note* tidak berhutang seperti minah di atas ye..]




21 comments:

Ms Tikot said...

Selamat Jalan & Good Luck to U. Mun ada masa jumpa di KL ;-)

Tia said...

all the best to you!!!!

tentang persoalan ya..
babe, ur citarasa, ur money. u r free to do what u want with ur own hard earned $$$$$.

Vivian said...

for your type : your money. your right. your choice. ktk mampu. ktk beli la. citarasa ktk gia. beli jak. sbb setiap org nang berbeza felicia.

your question will not suitable for me sbb kmk nang sik mampu dan sigek gik nang sik minat gia. so? ktk berhak lah nak deng? dan sigek gik..laki mgkn takut if rasa nya sik mampu dan takut ktk mintak duit dr nya.

as long as you tauk had, which is u tidak membebankan pasangan, and tauk menyimpan later. no hal. high mentenen mmg, bukan smua yg takut. mgkn ada yg rendah diri. perbezaan individu dan kehendak dan lifestyle.

fuh.panjang li jak. sori.

NAZ said...

saya lelaki rasa beban macam lets say hari jadi kalau beri hadiah selain brand yang dia selalu dapat adakah gembira wanita itu? tetapi selalu nya cinta itu samar samar. asal brand apa pun boleh jadi brand macam gucci or lv hahaha

Khaisya said...

mun kat sinun boh lupak ngan kmk org sitok..heheh..


*ala, mun mampu beli jak lah selagik sik mencabuli hak asasi mana2 pihak..chewah..olaki bkn xmok dekat..maybe sbb sidak asa sidak sik mampu berganding bersama ... rasa rendah dirik kah apa...chewahhh...

ztie said...

bena kata lango2 di atas tok.. ya hak ktk. sik mampu@ mampu ya belakang kira. kekeke.. tp selalunya yg mampu la bebeli. kmk jarang nak bebeli benda cmya. janji cantek and tahan .. dah cukup bagus untuk saya. sekali sekala mungkin ada.. its your money. high maintenance or sidak nya yg demand lebih? ekeke

joynstar said...
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joynstar said...

well my case lah, I always prefer spending my own salary biarpun kopak koyak rabak. My husband bukan tak nak belanja, but I always insist paying for my own stuff. Actually it's good for you ego because it helps to know that whatever you buy no matter what the price you wouldn't feel guilty making the purchase. So whatever my husband pay falls into 'gift' category.

Tak salah berbelanja asalkan sik menyusahkan orang dan diri sendiri. A good Alain Delon bag lasts longer than 3 Giosardi anyway. So in that sense you actually save a lot of money. Buy quality against quantity, isn't that a primary marketing rule for consumer?

And the perception thing, you can't keep up with people's expectation anyway. You never will, so don't be surprised when whatever you do makes somebody else cringe with disapproval.

So since you work hard, you're permitted to indulge. Just don't go overboard. And go cash never swipe.

flo... said...

amoi~~!!! if have time...we can meet up..hee...wish u all the best for 1yr ahead....

what say me??!!hehehehe...
bgs depend on oneself rather than use others money...
coz beli brg pake duit dikpun kta akan rs lebih aprreciate n mun meli brg mahal but quality is good save more money like wat joynstar said......
mun laki pdh high maintenance..sak nya cr org lain..empuan nek tok suma kira dh ada kerjaya...x depend dgn laki glak..silap2 org laki gk depend dgn empuan..eerkkk~~!!hee...

erolnukman said...

mun bg sy lah...sik kesah lah,tp ada jua sedikit cuak nak dekat...tp bila zaman ber'can' dolok bini kmk ada juak sdikit jenis camya..bila kluar sama bbeli brg kmk lepaskan nya ke tempat2 brg2 high class..kmk mpun jln2 g bundle.mun sik pun lepak kat studio.dah selesai bshopping baruk nya call..kakya kmk lah jd tukang kritik....hehehe...
kinek tok bini kmk ada lah sdikit prubahan...nya pun dah trjebak sama bbeli brg bundle..kahkahkahkah...

n i e z a said...

well that girl sounds like someone i know. ME! tp xla sampei tahap Gucci or LV la. haha.. it's ur money so u have all the right to spend it as u please. memandangkan aku bkn org laki so i couldn't say for them but i think, they will be intimidated coz they think they can't live up to our standards. but only certain guys la will feel dat way, for those yg mampu xkan ada efek pun. so kesimpulannya, abaikan apa org kata, asal ati puas. and carikla laki yg sekufu. i bet there are a few out there who have the same great taste in the finer things in life, just like us. ;)

AmirFX said...

Mmm.. Duit molah org ya lebih baik tapi mun people can change... Mun maok nak high mentenen terimak jak se adanya... Bah2.. Juh berjoli gik kita... Siney nak karaoke tek?!

Queen Bunga said...

a successful man is one that can make more money than his wife can spend.. hehehe. :)

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

Hi Ms Tikot!
Ok Ms Tikot.. makseh.. :) insyaAllah lak ada rezeki temu sinun..

Hi Big Momma!
Thanks Big Momma.. Yalah kan, lelah kerja, once a while i dont think it's a problem..

Hi Beautiful Stranger!
Pakar motivasi tok.. nah, it's a general question and true, setiap orang different but im sure kitak pun salu dengar about that typical perception whereby lelaki get intimidated by successful women nak? biasalah lelaki sentiasa maok berada di atas..

Hi Naz!
Intimidated lah tu. masalahnya sesetengah perempuan tak pernah memilih apa yang psgn dia beli..kira barang mahal tu adalah untuk kepuasan dia, manakala pemberian kekasih adalah tanda kasih sayang, dan tak perlu mahal2..

Hi Antasha!
Sikda kmk lupak.. sentiasa di hati. chewah. Kmk setuju juak dengan pendapat kitak koh..

Hi Ztie!
Yah, alu jadi lango.. :) i like your statement lah Tie 'high maintenance or SIDAK DEMAND LEBIH' hahaha..

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

Ai Sizzling Hot!
I'm so like you..! i dont like spending my other half's money for something i could buy my own.. even sometimes im the one yang offer to pay [g makan etc].. i just dont want kelak dudi ari di ungkit, so to be safe, since i'm earning my own cash, bagus k duit dirik mpun nak? And yes, a good Alain Delon bag is better than 3 Giosardi, the reason why i spent on C&K last week.
*Swipe mainly for air tickets jak..eheh sangatlah berdisiplin with my card.. :)

Ai Florance!
Boleh mintak nombor sik Flo? how aa nak merik.. ktk diam cney rah kl? i'll be renting out kat lembah pantai sia lah, sik tauk location as yet.. hahaha, last statement ya, cun ngenak batang idong my ex.. he's like that lah.. depend ngan ompuan. Cheap.

Ai Cikgu Erol!
Maka, terpaksalah these ladies berkahwin sak dapat ngurang perbelanjaan ke gedung2 mahal nak oh? hihihi

Ai Nieza!
Nak ncarik orang kaya yang bait agak susah now dude.. bila dah kaya, they will think they can do anything.. kita alu terkontang kanting kak ya.. but i'm with you, our hard cash, belanjalah as you please, rite?

Ai Amir!
hahaha mala ko ke.. alu sik bertemu kita.. :( adehs..

Ai Queen Bunga!
Yahhh tepat sekali! i loike

F. said...

high maintenance kalau pakai duit sendiri dan tak menyusahkan orang lain, dah kira SANGAT okey lah tu.


even i am like that too. kui, kui.


tapi luckily i have a very generous hubby too. hehehhe ;)

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

Hi Dokter Faryn!
tak menyusahkan orang kan? still guys intimidated sesetengahnya lah..
I'm in the middle, i dont mind spending on expensive stuff once in a while and i shop jugak kat affordable [cheap] stores like mydin etc.. kadang barang derang lagi best..hehe..
oh, time to look for a generous hubby nih for me..

flo... said...

woot~!!! juz email me ur num la k..
my email florancesy@gmail.com...
mek diam kt puncak jalil..sumwhere near stadium bukit jalil..hehehehe..lembah pantai sumwhere near petaling jaya ya asa mek..hehehehe...

am-rie said...

rasanya terpulang kat mcm ney cara hidup lelaki ya..munnya pun suka barang2 kat tempat camya,confirm happy..
memang Lagi happy mun perempuan guna duit sendiri..hikhikhik..

dukunlintahplk said...

wahaha.. best best maca komen2 di atas ya.. pak dukun malas mok komen.. lak alu melelat ke ceramah kewangan lak ahaha.. selamat menjalani kehidupan baru di kota metropolitan..

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

Hi Flo!
ermm sik sempat nak bukak email now.. please msg me kelak, my number 019 8823273. Im so gonna regret putting my number here tapi demi nak jumpa ktk, gasak jak..eheh.. msg mek ah flo? cant wait!

Hi Amrie!
hik hik.. benar juak.. mun laki ya pun kaya, mesti sikda apa2 mun ompuan ya pun mampu nak oh? betul betul betul..

Hi Pak Duk!
Sikpalah, janji pakduk ingat nak singgah blog tok jak, jadi lahhhhh..and thanks for the wish!