Thursday, March 12, 2009

Apa kes?

I read in the paper today, Rihanna is recording a love duet with Chris Brown, the man who had been charged beating her up violently on the eve of the Grammy Award in February. He had apparently punched her in the face, bit her ear and finger..!!

If anything at all, i am beyond surprised Rihanna is willing to accept Chris back after what he had done to her..Tak pernah dgr ke once bitten, twice shy? Issue aku ni, actually not about Rihanna in specific but ladies in general..kenapa la kan, sebab cinta, kita sanggup terima balik org yang pukul kita tu? Kalau marah gunung berapi sekalipun, ada caranya rite? guys?

Honestly, i have NO respect at all pada lelaki yang memukul wanita. Where gone the gentleman side? Tiada keindahan langsung dalam diri seseorang lelaki yang sanggup sampai tangan pada seorang wanita. Melainkan in the act of self defense, i dont see why men should put their hands on women.

Im saying this, because this was instilled inside my head, by my father, no men, should ever lay their hands on any women, in any circumstances at all. Of course, if life threatening, lain cerita lah kan. I take this issue seriously, sebab tak semua wanita berani bersuara or kerana sayang, mereka diamkan saja. I seriously hope this will never ever happen to me..Touch wood..sebab i deeply know i will not hesitate to leave a man who hurts me not just emotionally but also physically.

Touch Wood..

Tell me what you think, should a man who beats up someone he loves, deserve a second chance? or even a third chance if ever?


*guys ~ dont get intimidated k..i dont mean all, only some men. your opinions are most welcomed..


20 comments:

Anonymous said...

Isu hangat... pjg comment kmk tok.

Laki yg suka pukol rempuan... no excuse for them,i'll voleentierly kill these guys... Never ever hit a gal/lady unless if its for self defence.. This self defence part is stated in the law..so hv to respect laa...

Yg rempuan juak sigek hal...Generally gals are more loyal than guys.does it mean that their right?i dun really think soo... Y? hv to see the reason of them being loyal...here's some from my experience:
Sik kira terok ney laki ya polah,Gals will stay with the guy because...
-Dah bertahun-tahun stay ngan nya bah,apa nak polah gik nak...sayang bah hubungan ya dah lamak...
-Sik mampu gik dah nak carik laki lain yg mok ngan kmk koh...
-Time tok jak nya jaik,byk gik time dolok marek yg nya bait bah...
-Sik brani eh,klak nya hot klak mun kmk sik mok ngan nya gik...
-Sine kmk nak engkah aik muka kmk klak??
-Ngenang ngan mak nya bah,kakak nya gik...
-Dah jodoh kmk bah...

Sounds like a pure secrifice,rite?well,not for me... live ure life cause u just hv only one chance to live....use the chance to the fullest...dun let it go sbb dah STUCK with a guy... byk gik bah laki lain dlm dunia tok who are better...

-Speaking for the single guys-

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

mos04:
Mun ktk, kmk nang tauk very soft dgn ompuan..mun dpt, ktk akan jaga bait2 ompuan ya, nar sik? eheh...nak anok gik payah, dedek ka maluk, tul?
* banyak nemu ompuan mcm yang ktk tulis ya ho..doakanlah perkara mcm ya sikkan berlaku di kalangan kwn kita ho..
bagi yang sedang menderita, let urself go..kmk boleh perkenalkan pada kwn kmk yang hot tok, MUS..

x said...

Aie, sik mek tauk kesah Rihanna nak berduet ngan C.Brown (even after kes paluk-memaluk ya)...

Ya kali urang madah cinta itu membutakan mata...memekakkan telinga, lalu diri menjadi hampa. Yerrr...alu ber-rapping mek sitok.

f.i.e.z.a said...

emmm ive never been w any guy yg kaki pukol la.mintak jaoh juak.tapikan sumtimes kita sik tauk apa sbenanya jadi.maybe rihanna provoke si brown ya alu nya tang hak.dats y rihanna willing to give a second chance.
if im in her shoes emm siktauk la camnei mok molah.
kadang bila sayang gilak ngan org kita sanggup merik 2nd chance..

Faizal n Fashitah said...

Rindok ati Chris Brown nektok. Dahla Rihanna akan berduet ngannya, and after that Akon also molah tawaran mbak Chris Brown berduet juak. Adakah kes tampar menampar sebagai gimik? or publisiti? :)

AmirFX said...

Sian juak nangga Rihanna cemya kenak bodo leh laki... Tapi dlm kehidupan kmk ada juak kmk nemu laki kenak bodo leh ompuan siyesly.... Kmk sik suka juak mana2 pihak yg cemya... Spttnya duak2 memahami masing2... Bukan alu mbak klaie... Be friend with ur love one n u won't regret it...huargghhhh... ngantok ehhss... Ya jak lah....Nak tdo lok... Nway, nice entry...

aOne said...

ekekee.. lamak dah x ngabas blog ktk ih.. amoi santek.. ahahaha..

in my opinion(wah speaking)... xpatut lelaki pukul ompuan.. sbb yg adalah.. cdak duak adalah kekasih, kapel, gerek.. bkn nya suami isteri.. si lelaki xda hak utk datang tgn ngan si perempuan.. mun dah time kapel dah sampe tgn.. lom gk time dah kawen lak.. lagik la terok..

pasal 2nd chance or 3rd chance ya x tauklah.. mun dah lelaki ya berubah(benar2 berubah.. taubat nasuha) apa salah nya nak berik pluang.. tp mun masih juakk sama cam dolok.. carik org lain je laaaa..

The Geek Goddess said...

If he hits you once, he will hit you again.

My dad is the same as your late dad, Lynn. Ganas macam ne pun mak aku mengamuk (I inherited my temper from her, ok), aku sik pernah nengar bapakku tinggikan suara or angkat tangan kat mak aku.

*Lap air mata lok eh..terharu la pulak*

Dengan aku pun baru sekali nya pukul aku, ya pun sebab aku berolah gilak..

Makanya, umat-umat yang berkromosom seks XY, sila jangan pukul girlfriend/bini/mak/nenek anda (anak lain cerita la, mun nya berolah sila rotan)...mun rasa nak mengamuk, pergi main jauh-jauh...hahahahahaha....

bunga said...

kamek ingga ngan orang laki pandey angkat tangan ngan mpuan koh..siyess....asa kuat...

mun kamek lah kenak camya,jangan arap kamek mok agik ngan nya..jangan kata maok...nangga muka nya agik pun kamek sik sudii.....

**emo**

Haizum said...

I don't condone any physical abuse at all. I know we're talking about men hitting women and, but the reverse does happen. I guess "men hitting women" is seen as more horrific than "women hitting men" simply because men are generally (physically) stronger than women. But still. Physical abuse has no excuse.

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

Si Penconteng:
kmk dah dgr before tok, mek mikir juak, apa kenak kah Rihanna ya maok juak tek? Kita mintaklah dijauhkan dari lelaki yang suka maluk org ho..

f.i.e.z.a:
Rihanna jeles nangga C.B dgn ompuan lain kat bar, then what happened next was unclear, maybe benar Rihanna provoke nya, ya la alu sampey tgn CB ya rah nya..tapi sikkan laaaa sampey ditumbuk muka, digigit telinga + jari?

Audio:
Entahlah, mun nak kata gimik, sampey lah juak alu bergigit2..eheh

AmirFX:
ha, kdg2 nang benar org laki pun ada diperbodohkan ompuan, tapi jrang nengar kes paluk memaluk la nak...sebab nang sk dinafikan, bila ompuan maluk lelaki, sik seagresif/sekuat lelaki maluk ompuan..thanks!

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

aone:
Hi, aoklah lamak ktk ya sik ngabas kmk ctok. kmk jak ada ngabas nya..
*aa berkenaaan topik ya, nang..mun masa bergerek udah sampey tgn, tah apa jadi bila dah berkawen..mun kmk susah kmk nak berik peluang kedua koh..mak bapak kmk gik sik kalak maluk/nampar kmk

Lois Lane:
Like the word has it 'once a thief, forever a thief', same applies..sensitif bah omppuan kenak paluk..dah la nang sik physically strong kedak laki..for me, laki kedak ya nang sik pat diampun2..melepas marah dgn kaum yang sik sama taraf kekuatan..

White Tulip:
Sik hal emo..kmk pun emo juak mun nengar kes violent kedak tok..nang asa kuat..harap sik jadi ngan sapa2 antara kita hoh..

Haizum:
Yes, i'd have to agree with you. although less cases on women hitting men, it does not allow for it to be an excuse..thanks Acom!

Anonymous said...

Dim,ktk nolong jual saham kmk kah?hahaha...

kali chris brown n Rihanna suka rough s*x kali... ada bah org suka cam ya...gigit2..paluk memaluk... baruk puas...hahaha

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

mos04:
nang tinggi saham ktk dijual kmk..te he he..
yarabi ktk...pulang gik ke darat, mun di laut nang ada jak imajinasi ktk ya koh

Anonymous said...

Neyda laku saham kmk.smua org ingat kmk antu laut dah koh.hehehe...

Susah bah lpas nangga mcm2 jak masa kat Europe dlok.hehehe...

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

mos04:
aie, bukan ktk ada org di jaga rah platform sia ka..te he he..sapa ndakkah ..ahems..
aaa pa gik amsterdam, bukak channel jak alu cerita pasal ya jak..angol nyawa

Anonymous said...

Kmk di jg?hahaha..saham sik laku,ney ada org mok jaga.hahaha...

Iyyerr.. angol kah suk nangga smua ya...lalu bukak baju french maid ktk ya... hehehehe

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

mos04:
uish, ada org kuching berebut ktk eh..te he he..ahemsss...
kelak ngantar french maid benar2 dgn ktk..tapi kat laut, ada bah tukang masak sia..hahaha

Anonymous said...

Ada org Kch mok rebut kmk?hahaha... kmk drik pun susah nak cayak... lupakan saja... ;-)

antar sitok...iboh jak,lalu ancor french maid ya knak rusah 57 org laki lain ctok.hehehe...

Felicia F. Ramzi said...

mos04:
wah, ktk kira aaa bilangan org dlm ya..eheh...sikkan sorang pun sikda ompuan...udah termasuk tukang masak kah..