Taboo kan topik aku kali ni? (",). Rather serious but i guess it's no harm to share bits of knowledge, sambil2 mengupas isu hangat semasa. Lets.
How do i start? Well, can we really blame them? There are those falling under this human category whom had actually made it in life, became incredibly successful. Ellen deGeneres to name one, who recently married Portia de Rossi has her own famous tv show. No one said a word. No one objected, in fact they got double the publicity than other celebrities and still is making money! Of course we cant really compare since they are from the developed nation whilst us? Seriously Pengkid's have their own blog which is pengkidwebsite.blogspot.com and as of writing, their hit counters has reached 14,224.
My attention was brought to the objections by Pengkid, Tomboys and Lesbian over the recent news on Fatwa. No doubt, it's against the nature, against human nature, im not against them, but can they 100% be blamed?
I've a couple of friends in this 'nature', and they told me, they liked the way they are. They do not intend to change anytime soon, not even later. Honestly, i dont have problems making friends with any of them, as i believe they are who they are, i am what i am, for as long as you dont cross over the territory, im perfectly fine with it. I have no intention on becoming one either. Bukannya aku tak pernah kena orat, few times experiences but no, i'm still straight. Jgn risau kwn2 lelaki ku. I still vote for you, men. *grins. And now since the issue has been brought up like pisang goreng panas, i could not help but to search on their differentiations. Here's what i got.
Pengkid ~ PengKid ialah budak perempuan yang berpakaian seperti lelaki dan mempunyai minat pula kepada kaum sejenis iaitu kaum wanita. Mereka ini pula selalunya memainkan peranan sebagai orang lelaki dalam hubungan dengan pasangan mereka.
Tomboy ~ Tomboy ialah budak perempuan yang selesa berpakaian seperti gaya seorang lelaki. Namun naluri dan keinginan mereka masih lagi seperti seorang perempuan.
Lesbian ~ merujuk kepada orientasi seksual seorang wanita: dia bernaluri romantis dan seksual terhadap wanita lain, bukan lelaki. Naluri ini tetap akan wujud sama ada dia berambut panjang atau pendek, berkasut tumit tinggi atau berkasut bola, bertudung atau tidak.
Any questions? What's your opinion on them?
p/s: Have you ever noticed, that their 'girlfriends' are usually super hot chicks, with perfecto figure and a blessed beautiful face? (",)
17 comments:
Pada saya, tak perlu melenting. Kalau nak jadi lesbo ke, gay ke, memang hak masing2. pelbagai alasan boleh diberi. TETAPI, perlu diingat, fatwa tetap fatwa, dan HARAM tetap HARAM, begitu jega sebaliknya. Kalau nak buat benda HARAM buat ajelah, dosa sendiri tanggung, tanggungjawab pemerintah dan ulamak ialah memberi penerangan dan penguatkuasaan kerana sangatlah berat dosa dan hukumnya jika menghalakan yg haram dan mengharamkan apa yang halal.
NAK BUAT JUGAK, sendiri lah tanggung, jgn marahkan mereka yang menjalankan tugas mengeluarkan fatwa atau menguatkuasakan undang-undang.
yuzray:- aku tak melenting pun bila ada fatwa mengharamkan atau memakruhkan rokok, walau aku sendiri seorang perokok. kalau berdosa, aku lah tanggung!
people salu misunderstood intention penguatkuasa or ahli ulama, thinking these people are out to demolish them, when in reality, they are just doing their job. memang lah hidup tu kita sendiri atur kan..itu tak dinafikan..pendek kata, kita saling memerlukan, tul tak
The penguatkuasa and ahli ulama doesn't just merely doing their job. It's also a spiritual/religious responsibility of those who has authority. If they do not uphold the Islamic law, at the Court where Allah is the Judge, the Jury and the Arbiter, those people will questioned "why did you not stop them as you have the power to do so?". And we have to remember, the responsibility doesn't fall solely on them. It falls to all who are Allah's servants. We as Muslims have to remember that. Jika satu kelompok tidak menegah dan menghalang satu kelompok lagi yang jelas melakukan sesuatu yang salah di sisi Allah, maka dosa dan bala akan jatuh kepada kedua2 kelompok tersebut.
Dear, what do you mean by we cant compare our nation to the likes of America based on their open-mindedness and human-rights? Please don't compare us with a nation whose religious views are second to their so-called human rights. Clearly if gays and lesbians can thrive in the US, their religions have, sadly, failed.
We are lucky to have people who still uphold Allah's will (ulamas, etc). Imagine when there is no religion in Malaysia? Allah's wrath will come swiftly.
As for Allen deGeneres, I like her show. ^_^
As for the Pengkids, lesbians, gays and bapok. Dont say shits like, "i felt that my nature is to be like this" ... I dare you, can you say that in front of Allah's court? When the Almighty ask you, "Why didn't you try to change? Why didn't you contain your urge to go against nature?... You can't simply answer, "because it's my nature"... palak ko jawab camya...
pjg ni, mcm tak tau pulak nak reply mcm mana...all i can say, kita tetap umatNya dah segala hukum hakam hendaklah di patuhi, semoga Tuhan memberkati kehidupan kita, insyaAllah
Sorry if my comment is not as serious as others...i'm just tired with all of this serious topics...
I learnt 'bout Pengkid dr Ann... thank you Ann...hehehe... bila ya? time 3 jam nunggu ada miak kiut manjak ya pegi interview.hehehe...
Fiiuhh...glad that you still prefer guys... ;)
i agreed with yasser anas.
in my opinion, kita sering kali dgr 'pendidikan akhlak bermula dari rumah'. tetapi ada di antara kita tidak endahkan kata-kata tersebut.ibu bapa era kini mengharapkan 100% terhadap pihak sekolah & guru2 utk mendidik anak2 mereka manakala mereka sibuk mengejar kekayaan dunia. pihak sekolah terpaksa menjaga ratusan anak2 murid yg mempunyai pelbagai karenah dan apabila tercetusnya masalah, mulalah ibu bapa menyalahkan pihak sekolah. persoalannya, adakah anda telah melaksanakan tanggungjawab anda sebagai seorang ibu/bapa? adakah anda telah menerapkan nilai2 murni serta agama yang secukupnya terhadap anak2 anda dirumah? tapi kawan2, patutkah ibu/bapa dipersalahkan kerana tidak mendidik anak2 dgn sebaiknya sehingga anak2 mereka tidak kenal jantina diri sendiri lalu menjadi lesbian/gay? jika sekiranya ibu/bapa telah mendidik anak2 mereka sehabis baik, namun masih kurang terdidik akhlaknya, patutkah anak itu dipersalahkan?
pengkids, yeah the like women, but in the relationship, even as the masculine one, they still have the women, um apa sifat lam BI lynn hahaha. which is. possesive. cuba jak break off ngan one of em. jeng2.
(not my experience ok, ive seen my friend, nastyyyy)
they* like
(typo)
Mos04: you two Anne talked about PengKids? tiba2 jak? why? hehehe...oh yea, no worries, my boyfriend can keep his worriness aside cause he's still my best half. (",)
armyra: i agree with you myra..tunding2 jari, tidak menyelesaikan masalah. masing2 punya peranan masing2, tahu monitor dan disiplin yang teguh. Zaman skrg memang dah terlebih maju, sehingga agama diketepikan
.daria. : women intuition u mean? aok, ada kwn ku dolok, kelai dgn gerek, sampey ber antar bunga besar2 ke ofis..malu si 'girlfriend' nya..org sik tauk nya les, so semua ingat another guy kat department engineering yang merik nya [that guy minat ngan nya]
nang bahaya..tapi aku menten muka seposen jak mun hang out dgn bala geng nya
without a doubt its morally wrong, but for us mere human to judge others is then trying to play God. sometimes these group of people are even nicer than who we so called "go with the nature" or "normal". so let us not be so judgemental k..
p/s: all those sex crimes we heard mostly related to the "straight"..
anonymous: we have exactly the same mind..
ya ku suka kau lyn..nang sama palak ngan aku..hhehhe..
Why suddenly me n Ann klaka hal Pengkid? apa nangga ktk duak Ann ya rapat glk... mok nangga sapa amik role pengkid ya bah... hehehehe....
Just kiddin' laa Lynn... jgn lalu amik ati... we read 'bout it dlm magazine. Cayak sik,terpaksa kmk tok membaca demi menunggu rakan setia interview...;)
anonymous: ya aku alu kuries as in sapa kah kau? berik nama bok cuns..:)
mos04: aoklah, kmk lah si role pengkid ya, ok fine
hahahaha..aok lah, lagi sekali, lain kali sikda mbak ktk gik, mbak anne jak lah, teman setia anda
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