What say you when u are in love, do u share whatever possible means u have with ur loved ones? Do you let them shower you with gifts and just about anything when u are in need of something?
What say you about guys who do not feel like about accepting the girlfriend's help in terms of, what seemed to be always the issue, cash? What if the girl clearly is 100% ok and does not mind to lend a hand for that is the man whom she loves so much and would do anything to make him happy?
What say you? I find it rather difficult with Dia yang Kechomelan. Is it about the pride? Is it about that thing people say a relationship is not normal when a guy asks help from the girlfriend when it should be the other way around especially matters involving money?
Ask me, i'd do anything for Dia yang Kechomelan. Im not rich but i sure do want to share with him and do my bits in helping out when he is in need of one. Only, he refuses so..I'm born to be a giver..I'm blessed with piles of love that i would be more than happy to share it with someone i love, and now, it's him..tapi dia jenis tak biasa terima pertolongan..Independent
Tapi salah ke kalau we share? Salah ke kalau gf kasi duit kat bf? Salah ke kalau gf nak shower the bf with gifts? Tak boleh ke nak amalkan 'susah senang kita hadapi bersama?' Are females born only to ask money from the bf/husband/sugardaddy ?
Tell me, answer me, please.
P/S : btw, wont be posting any blogs for a day or two. Heading for Kuching, gi berjoli ronggeng with gorgeous girlfriends. Nuh, im actually off to join World Harvest Festival held at Cultural Village Kuching 24-25th May. All are welcomed.
9 comments:
It's not wrong.
It isn't wrong, it would all just depend on the other person's preferences.
But who am I to say anything? -_-
its not wrong, darl..it depends on who d individual la.like me on w my previous ex, i usually got my salary earlier than him.so i'll bank in him some cash to survive till his payday.then i know he'll pay me back..
x best juak mun org xmok d tolong lynn oo.but its ok.tak 2 gik awal juak.supan kali.hehe.just take it slow k..
Yasser : Tapi malu mungkin?
Acom : Appreciate your say
Sweetface : hmm..will take it slow lah..takes time ho..maksih fieza
definitely malu dear.. hehehe just like sweetface said, ktk duak ya, baruk jak kenal... so, mestila the guy ya gik supan ngan dear.. it takes time to built to that level of trust... for me, sik salah if the girl mok tolong the guy.. but if it involved money, then, i try not to ask the girl for it.. not in this stage of relationship.. if i pinjam duit from my GF, and my mother knows it, all Hell breaks loose... i rather drown in the swimming pool than face my mother's wrath.
it's normal. please don't push him into accepting the money. a real guy will always find his own way. gf is the last resort in getting financial help. only wussies and losers (IN MY HUMBLE OPINION) using gf as his 1st source of money. this kind of guy won't last in any relationship.
trust him, he'll trust you more. push him, he'll push you further. all the best =)
Yasser : U're right..thanks for the say, appreciate it..
KambengJantan : I've been thinking a lot about the 'trust him, he'll trust you more and push him, he'll push you further' thingy..guys ARE like that aren't they? I'm not pushing him i hope. But i do know that i love him..pretty scary to be in love though especially when it is still new. hmm
it's not wrong, bare in mind in any situation MONEY is a very sensitive thing. people kill because of it, husband n wife divorce because of it like the saying say "Money is the root of all Evil". take some time to know your partner only then you can do that. takut nanti dia perasan u desperate nakan dia. own judgement n evaluation is vital in this case. ...u must really enjoy yr trip to beijing!
Mysteryangel : i actually had a long chat with my bf about this issue, among other stuff included. We were so ok about it, being honest to each other on how we feel. We are learning about each other and accepting for what and who we are. I love him down to bits for that..What's not to love about him..period..hahahaha! (kid kid)
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